Skip to main content

Nurturing Fondness and Admiration Week 6



The principle of nurturing fondness and admiration is important. It may seem like a trait that would be best fit for a mother, but I believe it is a trait that every human being on earth should have. To care for and protect those around us who are strangers, and those who are near and dear to us.

I did an assignment this week that involved nurturing and caring for someone in my life. I chose my roommate, and I found that it was harder than I thought to go out of my way to do things to show that I cared for her.
In the end, I’ve noticed that we’ve been better able to understand each other when we communicate, and it’s about building each other up rather than competing, and silently hoping that the other person doesn’t reach their full potential.

In relating this principle to a marriage relationship, Dr. H. Wallace Goddard shared in his book, “Drawing Heaven into Your Marriage,” the following:
“Each of us is created in a different ‘factory’ or family. Two people come together assuming that they will readily connect. But we soon find that our traditions, expectations, assumptions, and ways of life do not line up. The more time that passes, the more clear the differences...What a glorious opportunity for accommodation! God knew that marriage would provide us unending opportunities to negotiate everything from what’s okay to wear on the Sabbath to what spices are favored in meals. When our relationship is built upon a firm commitment, it can endure - even thrive - in all these negotiations.” (46)
Just like the relationship with my roommates, I’ll have to learn how to get along with and even thrive in my future marriage.
I challenge my readers to choose someone they can focus on this week. Focus on nurturing and caring for this couple so you can create a relationship of trust and love.

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Covenant Marriage vs. Contract- Week 4

Although I’m not yet married, it was interesting for me to think about what It means to have a covenant marriage. There is a difference between a contract and a covenant, and Bruce C. Hafen, a former President at BYU Idaho goes into detail about what that means. He quotes, “ Three summers ago, I watched a new bride and groom, Tracy and Tom, emerge from a sacred temple. They laughed and held hands as family and friends gathered to take pictures. I saw happiness and promise in their faces as they greeted their reception guests, who celebrated publicly the creation of a new family. I wondered that night how long it would be until these two faced the opposition that tests every marriage. Only then would they discover whether their marriage was based on a  contract  or a  covenant. Another bride sighed blissfully on her wedding day, “Mom, I’m at the end of all my troubles!” “Yes,” replied her mother, “but at which end?” When troubles come, the parties to a  contractual  
Post a Comment
Read more

Forgive and Forget

This topic of forgiveness will ring true for us for the rest of our lives. We, as humans, are imperfect, and because of that we will run into situations where disagreements and harsh sentences are exchanged. This will be a time where forgiveness will need to take place. But don’t worry, because we have the resources! I loved the conference talk by an Apostle of the Lord, Elder James E. Faust. He spoke about many situations where families went through very tough trials, yet they were able to forgive. He then outlined three steps for dealing with hard feelings and turning around and forgiving.          1.   Recognize and acknowledge angry feelings Hatred retards spiritual growth 2.   Let go Cast out negative feelings of anger, spite, and revenge 3.   Forgive to be forgiven and lean on the Atonement I think the most important aspect to focus on is to lean on the Atonement. Remembering Jesus Christ, and the Atonement that he performed for us can help us to
Post a Comment
Read more